Saturday, February 22, 2014

When Choosing a Teacher becomes Good Self Care

A big topic for the Wild Woman is self care. When we begin to delve into it in the beginning or are heavily into it it's sometimes difficult to know which way to go and who to engage to help you along the path.

Then there is the aspect of teachers and healers. How do you choose the right one?

The other day someone said they were looking for a Reiki teacher and didn't know how they could know if they were genuine. Another asked about looking for healer and was  interested in finding out more about the spiritual path, hoping to find someone to work with but wondering how they could know if they were the right person. 

These are EXCELLENT questions. As choosing the right teacher and or healer, is an act of self care and is crucial on the Wild Woman Path.

If you are asking this question or resonating with it, then in my opinion, you are on the path and in fact on your way to being a master  of the path, as many do not even ask this question. Many forms of teaching can be quite diluted in their training and it's not that this is a bad thing, but it is good to look for the source and get as close to it as you can. The teachings from teachers who have the original empowerments, or wrote the book, or developed the system of healing, are the best to learn from as it is a more pure teaching.

With something like Reiki, and I realize this can be a hot topic, but for the sake of understanding, let's talk about it for just a moment.

Reiki has broken off into different lineages. The true lineage in the very beginning was the Usui lineage. If you want to have a more pure teaching, then finding someone who has this lineage in Reiki, will move you in that direction.

It's not to say the other is bad. It is only to say, that the teaching is different and not as close to the source as it could be if you were learning and receiving from someone trained directly in that lineage.

This goes as well for empowerments for example. Let's say for Green Tara. If you can get an empowerment from someone who is closer to the source of where the teaching comes from, that is good. It will be a strong empowerment and help you.

I am like this too. I feel it out. I like to go as close to the source of the birth of the healing modality or teaching system or written book as I can. I ask. I research. I make sure it feels right. I follow my gut. Listen to my intuition. See the synchronicities. As a Wild Woman, I gather information. And that comes from what I see, feel, know, intuit and acknowledge.

Of course getting to the source is not always possible. But getting close to it or being taught in the lineage from the source is and being aware of this is important.

BUT, don't get all hung up about this either.

The bottom line is this…

Choosing a teacher  or healer along the path is a good self care practice. We often don't think of it like this. But the reality is that it's something to be aware of and the questions above are fabulous insightful questions and very caring of your self. It is your journey and you are the one that has to take it, so caring about what comes along is a loving thing to do for yourself.

How do your find the right teacher or healer for you?

Look for someone with a good lineage or the person who is the creator or author themselves. Talk to them, get to know them. Read what they write. Go to their classes. And follow your intuition. See if it's a good fit for you.

Get a good feel for the teacher or healer that you are looking for. Some have good teachings and lineages, but they haven't done their personal work, so this is something to consider. You must feel good about who is teaching and who that person is along side of the teaching. Don't get all ga ga eyed. They can be well trained and just not the right fit or lacking in an important area in themselves or their delivery of the material for your growth as a wild woman on the path.

Listen deeply to your self and what you feel as well. Choosing the right teacher or healer along the Wild Woman path is important self care. And well, we Wild Women know, all aspects of self care are really important, and that choosing the right teachers and healers is an act of self care.

I hope that helps a little in your journey and along your path as you search for and find your teachers and healers. They are out there. And they are listening for you. Like they say "when the student is ready, the teacher will come."

I also think, "When the teacher is right, the student will know" :)

Much love,

~Elizabeth xo

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 About Elizabeth MacLeod
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18 comments:

Deb Lange said...

Another great post on self care!! Yes, often people don't think about choosing a teacher as self care. As you say, many go in awe and can give themselves up to the teacher. Of course a good teacher will guide them back to themselves. So another good practise, if you feel you have chosen a teacher but you then feel like you are doing all the giving, and feel drained and dependent rather than guided to find your own wisdom, practise self care and choose again. The more we practise self care and know ourselves well the better choices we make. Great post wild woman! xxx

Unknown said...

Hi Elizabeth! This is a good reminder to have a triber of healers around you. I am in the thought process right now of doing this - it gets confusing sometimes! There are great ones out there and not so great ones and the task can feel daunting..

april said...

thank you, elizabeth, for these helpful tips in choosing those to surround us who will further our way along the path, rather than hinder it. i like the way you kept reminding us throughout that it is indeed our journey and we must ultimately trust ourselves and our instincts.

Bon said...

I love your breakdown of the changes in Reiki, for example. I was a Reiki child (my mother and I took our first class together when I was 11 or 12; she went on to become a Reiki master). There is so much goodness out there and it's important to connect with our healers so that we can, well, heal! :D

Unknown said...

Elizabeth, I love this post. Reiki is a big part of my healthy lifestyle and self care regime. It took awhile to find the right healer. Trust was a block for me...she picked up on it right away. I am loving the self-care theme this week.
Thank you,
Dana

Unknown said...

I don't think I ever considered the specific practitioners I choose as an act of self-care. I've have good healers and ones that didn't align with the direction I needed to go in. All gave me lessons that needed to be learned. I have a secret list of the people I would love to work with in the future.

Denise Marie Filmore said...

These are great tips Elizabeth. I always take my time in choosing the right doctors or practitioners to help in my self-care. You always want people who are in alignment with your beliefs and your needs.

Thanks for the article. Self-care is number one for me now.

Sara said...

Elizabeth, this is great! This is absolutely true: "When the teacher is right, the student will know" Sometimes I want to run away from people who are potential teachers because the fit just isn't right. But when it's right, I feel completely drawn to them. Thx!

Anonymous said...

Hi Elizabeth, such great words of wisdom. Insightful and practical heartfelt advice. Thank you for sharing. xx

Elizabeth said...

Thanks Deb… Glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us here… xo

Elizabeth said...

Yes, I know what you mean! It can be daunting sometimes, but not so daunting if we just remember to come back to our selves! When it gets daunting for me, I take a break!

Elizabeth said...

Yes, our trusty instincts :)

Elizabeth said...

Yes. Heal. So important. For us all.

Elizabeth said...

I'm so glad your teacher picked up on that right away. Sounds like you found a great teacher for you. I'm so glad..

Elizabeth said...

I hope you get to work with your 'secret' list. mmmmm…. Think of it as an act of 'self-care' and I bet it will happen before you know it :)

Elizabeth said...

Number one is a great place for self care to be :)

Elizabeth said...

I know what you mean! :)

Elizabeth said...

Thanks Maria . . . My pleasure … xox